self care
For a healthy mind, body, and soul.
Roots and Fruit
Most people evaluate life by what shows. Results, behavior, success, failure, growth, collapse. Fruit is easier to measure than roots, so it becomes the focus almost by default. When something goes wrong, attention rushes to what is visible and immediate. When something goes right, credit is assigned to the most recent action. But this way of seeing consistently misreads causality. Fruit is never the beginning of the story. It is the result of something that has been growing quietly, often unnoticed, for a long time.
By Peter Thwing - Host of the FST Podcast2 months ago in Longevity
One Question You Should Ask Yourself DAILY
This one I got from Jay Shetty, and it resonated deeply: What did I do for myself today? Six words. No complexity. No framework. No ten-step system. Just one honest question that will expose exactly how well — or how poorly — you're treating yourself.
By Destiny S. Harris2 months ago in Longevity
Why Handwriting Could Be Good For You
Introduction Text from the Instagram post below: 1. Dr. Tanaka tracked seniors over 80 in Kyoto and found one constant: they wrote by hand for 15 minutes a day. Typing uses one neural pathway, but physical writing hits 17 different zones. You’re robbing your focus when you pick a keyboard over a pen. 2. MRI scans show that writing by hand forces your brain to manage spatial logic and memory at the same time. This effort keeps you off autopilot. Typing is just muscle memory, while writing is active thinking. It’s the clear difference between simple data storage and actual cognitive engagement. 3. In one trial, those journaling by hand had 41% better recall and 34% faster processing. “The pen builds the hardware,” Tanaka noted. The industry hid this for years to protect revenue, since you can’t patent a pen. They chose profit over your memory. Write three original sentences every morning to keep your mind sharp.
By Mike Singleton 💜 Mikeydred 2 months ago in Longevity
Day 30 of Quitting
Well, I’m back in Canada and this saga continues, but I’d be lying if I said it’s been easy. Two afternoons ago, my boyfriend and I landed in Toronto after 21 hours of flying and three days of travel. We had just gotten off a 15-hour flight from Hong Kong to Canada where neither of us slept. The temperature had gone from plus-30 to negative-25 (celsius), no coffee was hitting as beautifully strong as Australian coffee had (iykyk), and a long to-do list was waiting for us on the other side of a 5-hour car ride back to the remote village we live in, up in northern Ontario.
By sleepy drafts2 months ago in Longevity
Ecclesiastes and the Weight of Meaninglessness
Have you ever noticed how unsettling Ecclesiastes feels compared to most of Scripture. It does not rush to reassure. It does not soften its conclusions. It returns again and again to the same observation: everything fades, everything repeats, and nothing under the sun seems capable of holding still long enough to become permanent. Wisdom fails to secure lasting satisfaction. Pleasure loses its edge. Work outlives the worker. Even moral effort appears unable to guarantee stability. For many readers, this tone feels almost dissonant, as if the book is saying out loud what faith is supposed to quiet.
By Peter Thwing - Host of the FST Podcast2 months ago in Longevity
