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Divorce isn't an end; it's a different beginning.
Chronic Ache in the Soul of a Single Parent
There is a chronic ache in the soul of a single parent. It lingers, feeling endless. This ache feels so difficult, especially when you look at other families. They seem so… whole. They seem so joyful and complete. There is a husband and a wife and children in a stroller. Thinking about your single state, you realize how awkward you feel, how out of place at various functions and gatherings. They are all happily together and you’re miserably alone. Disappointment with the current life circumstances just settles in to stay, or so it feels. How could these layers of disappointment be broken up anyhow?
By Rowan Finley about 17 hours ago in Humans
Take a Picture
I joined an online Trauma recovery group for women. I was reading a young ladies post and had a flashback that took me way back. Way back to a time I thought was long forgotten. It was obviously still fresh inside me. I thought to respond with what I learned from it. Hoping to help. Maybe do something positive with something so negative from my past. The girl writing was talking about something very familiar to a lot of victims who often end up going back to their abusers. Sometimes, several times, and for various reasons. I could go on forever about the various reasons victims of abuse go back to their abusers, but I want to write about one today because this young ladies’ post triggered me to do what I refer to from time to time as “Time Travelling.”
By Dana Mary Colleen Campbella day ago in Humans
Ghosting Recovery Strategies Help Singles Regain Confidence And Emotional Balance
The phenomenon of ghosting, an abrupt and unexplainable vanishing of a partner in a romantic relationship has become quite prevalent in the dating culture. To those receiving it, it may be shocking, disorienting and very intimate. The absence of the conclusion is what tends to make people wonder what went wrong, revisiting the conversation, and finding answers which are not always forthcoming. Such uncertainty might add to emotional stress because the lack of communication does not allow resolving the situation naturally and instead leaves it open-ended, which is more difficult to process and proceed to work with clarity.
By Robert Smith2 days ago in Humans
Orbiting Behavior Shows How Digital Connections Complicate Breakup Recovery
Orbiting is a recent dating trend in which a person who has broken up with their partner carries on interacting with their ex in the virtual world. This may be by liking their posts, viewing their stories or sometimes responding without the need to create any direct contact. Orbiting psychologically connects people unlike in the traditional break up where distance tended to bring emotional distance. It leaves a paradox of having a person who is not actually there in person, but is online, and the other one is unable to fully process the distance and proceed with alertness.
By Robert Smith2 days ago in Humans
Orbiting After Breakup Why Ex Partners Stay Watching Social Media
Orbiting is a contemporary post break up phenomenon where an ex-partner continues to passively exist in your life, in most cases by following along with your social media posts without talking to you. Orbiting, unlike ghosting or active contact, does not demand the visible presence of them and does not entail confrontation and responsibility. This may cause an enduring emotional psychological disorientation to the individual being orbited because even minor involvement provokes attachment or interest. The interpretation of orbiting as a digital convenience is a way of how to make the behavior a context that the singles can relate to, and that the actions of the ex are aimed at satisfying their own emotional needs, not at your value.
By Mark Hipster4 days ago in Humans
Top 40 Social Secrets Nobody Admits
Human social interaction operates according to elaborate unwritten rules that everyone learns implicitly through observation and experience but that are rarely explicitly articulated, creating a situation where socially fluent people navigate complex situations instinctively while socially awkward people struggle to understand what they are doing wrong because no one explains the actual rules operating beneath polite fictions. The following forty social secrets are things that socially successful people understand intuitively but that represent genuine revelations to people who struggle with social dynamics, and making these implicit rules explicit can help people who were never taught social skills or who are neurodivergent and do not pick up implicit social information understand the often arbitrary but very real conventions that govern human interaction in most cultural contexts.
By The Curious Writer5 days ago in Humans
Dumpster Fire
Everything is ruined. There is no way to fix it. What am I going to do? This is so unfair! Life is full of surprises, and some are not welcome ones. In fact, life tends to test you to the very ends of your nerves and emotions. There is no way to avoid it or the tragedies that spring up, but they can be weathered, if you sit back and take a breather.
By Alexandra Grant6 days ago in Humans
Why Do the Elderly Crave Sweets
Many families notice the same surprising pattern as their loved ones age: older adults often develop a stronger craving for sweets. Grandparents who once preferred savory meals may suddenly reach for cookies, candy, ice cream, or sugary drinks more often than they used to.
By AnthonyBTV6 days ago in Humans
The Text Message I Was Never Supposed To See...
Can't wait to feel you inside me again tonight baby" read the text message that appeared on my girlfriend's phone while she was in the shower, except I was standing in our kitchen two hundred miles away from where she claimed to be on a business trip, and the message definitely wasn't meant for me.
By The Curious Writer8 days ago in Humans
