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Selfish Relationship Habits You Need to Stop
Selfish relationship habits are a lot more common than we realize. Romantic relationships can be messy and, most of us would agree, that is an understatement. Between forfeiting your bachelor lifestyle to accommodate your lover, establishing common grounds (and negotiating the not-so-common grounds), learning the different dynamics of your relationship, and working out what doesn’t seem to work, it’s ridiculously easy to get caught up in all of the different aspects of your relationship. Once the newness of a relationship passes and the chaos of adjusting to life as a couple has settled, you get comfortable with the way things are. Most of us don’t like change, and we often find ourselves stuck in our own ways. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but it can be if you get a little bit too comfortable with the way things are and you start to take them for granted. In this sort of mindset, it is likely that we will develop selfish behaviors. Too often, selfish behavior turns into a habit, which can turn your relationship from sweet to sour in no time at all. Selfish habits will ultimately destroy your relationship in one way or another, and unless you are able to identify them, there is no stopping their wrath of destruction. Don’t let your relationship fall victim to your selfish habits. Save yourself the heartbreak and use the following list of common selfish relationship habits as a guide to keep your behavior in check, and your relationship intact.
By Alicia Springer9 years ago in Filthy
Passion Killers In a Relationship and How to Avoid Them
Have you been in a relationship for a while now? Are you starting to realize that there are a couple of passion killers you're struggling to address? At the beginning of a relationship you can barely contain the passion! You're both really enthusiastic about this new journey that you're embarking on together and the potential routes it could take. It's all an intriguing mystery that you think will never end! However, every relationship has its struggles… and there are a few key passion killers which everyone should keep an eye out for and avoid.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
Dating Struggles of a Millennial
There are an endless number of struggles faced by Millennials in the dating world. Let's dip our toes into the metaphorical dating pool. Are you a twenty-something who has come to the realization that dating in today's society is all but impossible? Do you sit at home on weekends crafting the perfect online dating profile? Do you absolutely dread the thought of a first date with someone you have never met or only spoken to online? Don't worry, chances are you're not alone! The world we live in has Millennials perfecting responses to texts to seem just the right level of interested, having meltdowns while deciding whether to swipe right or not and hiding most (if not all!) of their emotions to make them seem "cool." And this is just to arrive at the first date. The dating struggles of Millennials require a special type of mindset to overcome.
By Mitch Curran9 years ago in Filthy
Creepy Things that Are Acceptable In a Relationship
If you are in a long lasting relationship, you might have noticed some of the creepy things that you accept or even do with your significant other and still consider to be completely normal. There are many things that couples do when they are alone, but they would never do in front of other people simply because it would make them look extremely weird and creepy. Do not worry, if you are one of those people—it is not something you should really worry about, even though these things might seem creepy at certain moments, we assure you that all couples have these moments.
By Yadim Shmaltz9 years ago in Filthy
Sexiest Tumblrs to Follow
If you’re the kind of person who wants to see the best sexy images on the internet but doesn’t want to go digging, then what you are looking for are the sexiest Tumblrs to follow. Tumblr has long been a vehicle for sexy content, and with users updating their pages every day, sometimes multiple times a day, you can be sure that you’ll never be in want of new material. Another great thing about Tumblr is that it is 100 percent free and since it’s user curated you can find others who share your interests so you know that you’ll always have a bevy of quality images in your backlogs. With that being said let’s check out the sexiest Tumblrs to follow.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
Let's Talk About Sex
For those of you younger generations out there, you might want to cover those eyes because this isn't censored. This is just a causal conversation about sex and those hormones that arose us. So grab a glass of that chardonnay or the bottle, and continue on...
By Beca Sayers9 years ago in Filthy
How to Keep Lust Alive In Your Relationship
Intimacy and lust in a relationship are topics that should always garner some attention. Some believe that lust is not the most important aspect of a relationship, but few can actually be indifferent towards it. After all, lust is an essential part to a relationship. Without it, you're going to have a hard time making things work.
By Yadim Shmaltz9 years ago in Filthy
The Paul Walker Effect
I have a theory about attraction. The theory is best illustrated by a scene at the beginning of the original "The Fast and the Furious." Paul Walker (may he rest in peace) plays Brian O'Connor, a man who apparently really enjoys the tuna salad sandwich at the place of employment of his crush, Mia. In the movie, he goes to the diner day after day for the shitty tuna sandwich (on white bread without crust) and because she thinks he's hot stuff, she finds it endearing that he visits her every day and orders the same thing.
By Matt Swecker9 years ago in Filthy
Things to Know Before Dating a Girl Who Just Got Out of a Bad Relationship
Whether he was a cheater, a liar, an abuser, or just an idiot, bad relationships can leave some serious damage. The damage can include but is not limited to major trust issues, feelings of vulnerability, vows to never date again, dating sprees, emotions running rampant, or even a complete switch off of emotions. Clearly the situation can go a lot of ways, all usually pointing south. So let’s break it down into what happens when you finally start letting in someone new. Where do these new relationships that may so painfully touch upon old memories usually go wrong? Regardless of how amazing and “different” he or she claims to be, there are just some things we wish you understood about dating someone who just got out of bad relationship.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
The Noises from Next Door
You're lying in bed with someone you shouldn't be, trying not to listen to the couple next door. *** “There must be some mistake,” Gemma didn’t look happy, her arms were folded across her chest and her jaw was clenched. “There should be two separate rooms. Can you check again please?”
By Mars Benway9 years ago in Filthy
Benefits of Being In a Relationship
Have you ever thought about the benefits of being in a relationship? Being in a long term relationship might not be everybody’s cup of tea. Some people might prefer to keep their options open, others might love their single life, and others might just be scared of commitment. However, there are a series of benefits to being in a relationship that these people often forget about or don't take into account.
By Dr. Harmon Love9 years ago in Filthy
