45 Life Lessons I Learnt The Hard Way
If I had known these lessons sooner, I would have saved years of pain
By Edward SmithPublished about 4 hours ago • 4 min read

- Please, please, please - do not be afraid of failure. It will give you a lesson in life that your dad or mum cannot teach you.
- Your parents love you unconditionally. You will never find someone who loves you like they do.
- Do not be a believer in the easy way of people.
- The majority of the people around you do not wish you well in your success.
- Do not be frightened that someone is breaking your heart. In this way, this is how you learn life best - the biggest wake-up call that brings you to a new level of your life.
- Your most intimate - family, friends - will wound you. Others cannot wound you; their impact may feel like a mosquito bite.
- Anyone can cheat. Do not tell yourself, "This person won't." He isn't a saint. He or she can - even your dad or mum.
- The most important thing you have in your life is you. But you cannot provide any service when you are not in well-being. You will be taught by life.
- Learn to love yourself in case you do not
- Humans are liars who lie unconsciously - they do not even know it.
- When you feel you cannot be happy without this or that - money, career, spouse, family, etc. - you will never be happy.
- Never get into a relationship or marriage because it's the only way you can live your life (codependency). It will not last long once one takes the relationship for granted.
- Money flows in and out. Nevertheless, do not prioritize money over the people you care about.
- By standing out on your own, people will begin to hate you.
- There are certain advantages that most people have over you - and that is why they are in your life.
- Love is in our heart, so do not hesitate to show this affection in life.
- Explore as much as you can. Then you will be capable of comparing things in your life. Also, learn a million different things I know nothing about.
- You are in depression because your life is not the way it ought to be. It is through thought that you were brought to depression. Do not use SSRI drugs if you are not suicidal. Process your time. Find out what causes the depression. I learned nearly all things when I was depressed.
- You need self-talk to make your ass get up. Standing in front of the mirror is preferable.
- There is no one who can love you unless you love yourself. People will not respect you unless you do.
- Our real aim on Earth is to live collectively - but we are too far from being real. Trump failed to support climate change organizations, and nothing changed because he still lived unaffected. We have children - or we can have them - and they will have children too. Please, do not be narcissistic; think of the future.
- The only way you can change your life is through self-acceptance. Then all other areas will fall into place.
- Not everyone can love. Therefore, do not dwell on these people.
- YOU SHOULD BE JUST AS WELL AS YOU ARE. You will know this even when you believe you are shit, ugly, stupid, jobless, broke, etc. - or all of them. Be what you are, whatever you are.
- It is possible to turn your life around, wherever you are now - poor to rich, or vice versa.
- You have the opportunity to be who you want to be. First of all, make a decision.
- Do what you love, not what makes you more money - unless you want to die poor or unhappy, always feeling unsatisfied.
- Never assume anything or anyone.
- Best to trust no one - perhaps only your mum.
- The thing that comes first in your life is you - not your children, mums, husband, or family.
- When you stumble, your friends may not be there - not always.
- Look after yourself now, or you will not want the doctors to be your bosom friends.
- The finest legacy we are free to leave is meditation.
- Healthy eating will have an impact on your thinking. (No kidding.)
- To be alive and healthy, your body does not require meat or chicken.
- Sleeping quality must be one of the most important activities in our life.
- If our childhood - even if bad - and our problems still bother us, they will stalk us until we confront and combat them.
- Unless we satisfy our own needs, no one else will. (Hunger will not be fed.)
- There is not a single person who is perfect now - or will ever be. Therefore, it is time to stop striving to be perfect.
- Never take revenge on someone. Revenge will not put you above the person you are avenging against.
- Be glad when you feel lost - going to find yourself and your "why" to live. At least you know you are lost. Most people are asleep.
- Do not do what you will have to confront in the future.
- You cannot escape your suppressed emotions - so sit down and address them. Do not allow them to disable you.
- There should be no hatred toward any person. Hatred is a feeling - and it will not make the hated or the loved person forget.
- Most Essential Thing in Life Is Water
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